LOVE OF GOD
THE FOUNDATION FOR VICTORIOUS LIVING
But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 5:8
We have been looking at various revelations of God’s love. Last week, we looked at the compassionate love of God that never quits. Today, let’s look at the love of God that was demonstrated for the sinner.
It can be best described from the parable of the Prodigal Son. Let’s head over to Luke 15.
11 Then He said: “A certain man had two sons. 12 And the younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me the portion of goods that falls to me.’ So he divided to them his livelihood. 13 And not many days after, the younger son gathered all together, journeyed to a far country, and there wasted his possessions with prodigal living. 14 But when he had spent all, there arose a severe famine in that land, and he began to be in want. 15 Then he went and joined himself to a citizen of that country, and he sent him into his fields to feed swine. 16 And he would gladly have filled his stomach with the pods that the swine ate, and no one gave him anything.
17 “But when he came to himself, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger! 18 I will arise and go to my father, and will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you, 19 and I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Make me like one of your hired servants.”’
20 “And he arose and came to his father. But when he was still a great way off, his father saw him and had compassion, and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him. 21 And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and in your sight, and am no longer worthy to be called your son.’
22 “But the father said to his servants, ‘Bring out the best robe and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand and sandals on his feet. 23 And bring the fatted calf here and kill it, and let us eat and be merry; 24 for this my son was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ And they began to be merry.
25 “Now his older son was in the field. And as he came and drew near to the house, he heard music and dancing. 26 So he called one of the servants and asked what these things meant. 27 And he said to him, ‘Your brother has come, and because he has received him safe and sound, your father has killed the fatted calf.’
28 “But he was angry and would not go in. Therefore his father came out and pleaded with him. 29 So he answered and said to his father, ‘Lo, these many years I have been serving you; I never transgressed your commandment at any time; and yet you never gave me a young goat, that I might make merry with my friends. 30 But as soon as this son of yours came, who has devoured your livelihood with harlots, you killed the fatted calf for him.’
31 “And he said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that I have is yours. 32 It was right that we should make merry and be glad, for your brother was dead and is alive again, and was lost and is found.’”
Luke 15:11-32
INTERESTING FACTS
Let me quickly run you through some interesting facts about this parable.
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It is called the crown and pearl of all parables.
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Charles Dickens described it as ‘the finest short story ever written’.
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Another writer stated that it is the most winsome picture of God ever drawn on earth.
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Now, wait for this last one that will surely surprise you. Do you know what the word ‘prodigal’ means? Many of us might assume that it has some bad connotation and has to do with wayward behavior. Well, prodigal literally means ‘recklessly spendthrift’. So the parable is not so much about the wasteful lifestyle of the younger son, but about the father who recklessly poured out all of his love on his undeserving son.
Alright! Let’s now dive into the parable.
CONTEXT
11 Then He said: “A certain man had two sons. 12 And the younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me the portion of goods that falls to me.’ So he divided to them his livelihood.
Luke 15:11-12
Even though Jesus’ opening statement sounds casual, in reality it is a pretty grave situation. Mr. Bailley who is an expert on Middle Eastern culture writes in his book that most Middle Eastern villagers would say that generally a son wouldn’t ask his father for his inheritance. It was rude and outlandish to make such a demand. Inheritance normally passed on only at the death of the father. In effect, when a son asked for his share of the inheritance he was stating that he wished his father dead so that he could have his money! What an insult! A typical father would beat up the son who dared to make such an insensitive demand!
Imagine this father’s plight!
His younger son literally called him a barrier to his plans for a new life! Now, he had to sell his assets to give his son his share of the inheritance. In those days, there was no loose cash lying around. All the wealth was tied up in immovable properties. He had to sell his land which meant that the whole village would come to know of the ordeal. His family would become the laughing stock of the village! What humiliation and agony! Meanwhile, the boy didn’t seem even slightly remorseful about the whole matter. He grabbed the money and set off!
The father could have refused to give into the son’s demands and punished him for even entertaining such a thought! He could have forced him to stay. But this father does nothing of that sort because true love never controls or compels another to love them back. True love lets go.
DASHING AWAY
13 And not many days after, the younger son gathered all together, journeyed to a far country, and there wasted his possessions with prodigal living.
Luke 15:13
Without a second glance or thought, the younger son gathered all the money and galloped away to a distant country. He willingly and deliberately walked away from every discipline, upbringing, value and the fear of God that he was brought up in. Off he went and splurged his money in a wild lifestyle. Very soon he was broke. To make matters worse for him, recession hit the country! Jobs and food became scarce.
HANGING OUT AT THE STY
14 But when he had spent all, there arose a severe famine in that land, and he began to be in want. 15 Then he went and joined himself to a citizen of that country, and he sent him into his fields to feed swine. 16 And he would gladly have filled his stomach with the pods that the swine ate, and no one gave him anything.
Luke 15:14-16
Somehow our hero managed to find a job with a citizen of the country. This citizen must have been a wealthy man. Sadly, the only job that was offered to the down-on-his-luck boy was taking care of the pigs.
Now as far as a Jew was concerned, there was nothing more deplorable than being associated with pigs. But so miserable was this boy’s financial situation that he took up the job! But even there, he didn’t have it easy. His masters wouldn’t even let him eat the pods that the swine ate!
SENSE DAWNS
17 “But when he came to himself, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger! 18 I will arise and go to my father, and will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you, 19 and I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Make me like one of your hired servants.”’
Luke 15:17-19
A hungry belly and an empty wallet knocked him back to his senses! He recognized his dire condition and realized that his father’s servants were treated better than he was. Slowly he made up his mind to return to his father and beg for forgiveness. Of course, he had burned all bridges when he left home. Nevertheless he decided to give it a try.
THE RETURN OF THE PRODIGAL
20 “And he arose and came to his father. But when he was still a great way off, his father saw him and had compassion, and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him. 21 And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and in your sight, and am no longer worthy to be called your son.’
22 “But the father said to his servants, ‘Bring out the best robe and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand and sandals on his feet. 23 And bring the fatted calf here and kill it, and let us eat and be merry; 24 for this my son was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ And they began to be merry.
Luke 15:20-21
One day, the father looked out and saw a wonderful sight! There in the distance was his beloved younger son slowly trudging home. Compassion for this child of his overwhelmed him. He ran all the way, took the young lad in his arms and kissed him. Even before his son had a chance to explain himself, the father embraced him and welcomed him.
The grace of God received the boy. The love of God took him in.
The son began to apologize to his father and admitted that he had no right to even be considered as his son.
He didn’t get ahead with his carefully rehearsed speech! The father stopped him short.
BRING ON THE PARTY!
22 “But the father said to his servants, ‘Bring out the best robe and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand and sandals on his feet. 23 And bring the fatted calf here and kill it, and let us eat and be merry; 24 for this my son was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ And they began to be merry.
Luke 15:22-24
The father called out to his servants to bring the best robe, a ring and sandals for his darling son. He ordered a feast with the fattened calf and the party music to be turned on. His son was home and he wanted to celebrate it!
Wow! Astonishing, isn’t it? Let me decode that for you.
The father was responding to his son’s confession through those few statements.
Best robe – The best robe generally belonged to the most honored person in the house. In this case it belonged to the father. He was telling his son that ‘You say that you have sinned against me. But when you are bathed and cleaned this robe will cover you’. It symbolizes the cleansing of our sins by the Father God. He not only cleanses us but also covers us with His cloak of righteousness.
Ring – A ring is a sign of authority. When he wore the ring it would imply that he is the son of the house and that he could transact business. We have the stamp of approval as God’s sons and daughters on our lives when we become His children.
Sandals – Servants generally didn’t wear sandals. Only family members would wear them. Here the father wanted his son to know that he would never be a servant. He was the son of the family and he would wear sandals. God has called us not to be servants but to be his sons.
PITY PARTY
25 “Now his older son was in the field. And as he came and drew near to the house, he heard music and dancing. 26 So he called one of the servants and asked what these things meant. 27 And he said to him, ‘Your brother has come, and because he has received him safe and sound, your father has killed the fatted calf.’
28 “But he was angry and would not go in. Therefore his father came out and pleaded with him. 29 So he answered and said to his father, ‘Lo, these many years I have been serving you; I never transgressed your commandment at any time; and yet you never gave me a young goat, that I might make merry with my friends. 30 But as soon as this son of yours came, who has devoured your livelihood with harlots, you killed the fatted calf for him.’
31 “And he said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that I have is yours. 32 It was right that we should make merry and be glad, for your brother was dead and is alive again, and was lost and is found.’”
Luke 15:25-32
Meanwhile the older son came home and saw a full-fledged party going on. Bewildered, he enquired what was happening. On hearing what had happened, he becomes enraged.
He somehow believed that his ‘goodness’ of meekly staying by his father had earned him a standing and favor in front of his father. Now, he seethed with anger at seeing his insolent brother return home and be welcomed so graciously.
What a pitiful picture it paints. The mask was quickly coming off his face. With one statement, his carefully constructed image was stripped and we see a man who was uncharitable unkind, proud and self-righteous.
Somewhere along the way, the elder brother had misunderstood his father’s love for him.
EARNING & LOSING GOD’S LOVE?
The elder son had assumed that he earned his father’s love by his ‘good behavior’.
The younger son thought that he’d lost his father’s love by his ‘wasteful behavior’.
But the father loved them both irrespective of what they did or didn’t do. He loved them from the very beginning, even before he gave them his wealth.
Our God loves us too similarly. He loved us even before the foundations of the world were established. He loves us even when we walk away from Him. He loves us when we walk with Him. He will love us till the end of age. Because of His love for us, He has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ (Ephesians 1:3). In gratitude, we obediently follow His Commandments.
CONCLUSION
Then all the tax collectors and the sinners drew near to Him to hear Him.2 And the Pharisees and scribes complained, saying, “This Man receives sinners and eats with them.” 3 So He spoke this parable to them
Luke 15:1-2
Jesus’ audience included the sinful tax collectors and the self righteous Pharisees. He looked at them and said:-
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Those who are lost can be forgiven
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Those who think they are not lost are perhaps lost
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No matter who you are (the sinner or the Pharisee) God loves you both
No matter what our past is or how far we have strayed, God loves us. We can always come back. We will be welcomed with open and loving arms.